Reflections From a Murky Pond

Trapped Into Violence

Opening Notes/Caveats

Firstly, this PSA is aimed at actual Transgirls, not the oh-so-obvious CDs/TVs that we keep seeing causing issues through their behavior. Secondly, this is entirely predicated on anecdotal evidence I’ve acquired over many years. Hence, it’s not truly scientific – there’s no published study – but it is a largish body of experiential evidence.

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From everything I’ve seen, read, and heard directly from the transgurls, the number one cause of violence against them is that they “trapped” a guy. I.e., they didn’t inform him of their actual gender until their relationship, situationship, or hookup reached the point of sex. Yes, violence against “trans” happens for other reasons, especially when it comes to the current crop of CDs/TVs who call themselves trans. But, among those who’ve done the work and put in the effort to pass, those occurrences are vanishingly rare as opposed to a man getting a very unwelcome surprise.

Please show some sense and exhibit a bit of self-preservation instincts. Most guys aren’t Admiral Ackbar. They have no instinct for detecting traps. 😆 It’s not going to end well for you, and might end very badly.

There should never be a case of “I wonder what’s going to happen when the guy I’m seeing finds out.” He should already know through clear, open, and early conversation to ensure “overt, enthusiastic consent.” If you’re going to be a girl/woman, be one. And leave that male ego and the “it all work out” sexual optimism behind.

Tags: America | Babes | Beauty | Common Sense | Gurls | LGBT | LGBTQ | Mental Illness | PSA | Sexual Assault | Shemales | Society | Stupidity | Tgirls | Trans | Transgender | Traps | Violence

This entry was posted on Wednesday, June 17th, 2026 at 9:07 am and is filed under Society. You can skip to the end and leave a response. Pinging is currently not allowed.

Friends With Benefits – A Valentine’s Alternative
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Friends, Reader, Countrymen – with Valentine’s Day around the corner, here’s a small bit of advice. Don’t let the perfect become the enemy of the good. A Valentine’s Day night with a Friend with Benefits is better than one spent alone or with some desperate, hookup partner. True, it’s not as good as having a “proper,” romantic partner on Valentine’s Day, but a Friend with Benefits is a relationship partner, therefor both good enough and far less stressful than the norm on this upcoming holiday.

Pedantic Note: The yellow roses with some red-blushed one amongst them are a “hat tip” to one variant of the Floriography of Victorian times in which yellow roses were for friendship and red ones for romantic interests. 😉

Tags: Advice | Dating | Floriography | Flower Code | Flowers | Friends with Benefits | Holidays | PSA | Sex | Society | Valentine's Day | Wisdom

This entry was posted on Friday, February 3rd, 2023 at 7:00 am and is filed under Society. You can skip to the end and leave a response. Pinging is currently not allowed.

With the weather being what it is right now, especially anywhere north of the Mason-Dixon line, here’s a simple Public Service Announcement (PSA) for all you folks who will be taking to the roadways:

Or, the same warning message as it would be given in a kinder, gentler, more perfect – or, at least, less fucked up – world:

Somewhat more seriously though, it’s just snowy conditions. Use your brains! It doesn’t take that much self-awareness and cognitive function to know whether you can drive in it or not.

Tags: America | Darwinism | Driving | Humor | Intelligence | PSA | Sarcasm | Snow | Society | Weather | Winter

This entry was posted on Monday, January 17th, 2022 at 7:00 am and is filed under Humor, Society. You can skip to the end and leave a response. Pinging is currently not allowed.

Since I post bikini babe pics quite often, I’ve decided to be a responsible blogger and provide this PSA.

Your aftermarket breasts, eye-catching and delightful as they may be, are not flotation devices! They will not make you buoyant. They are not a suitable alternative to a life vest.

Breast implants, even those placed above the muscles of the chest, are not capable of making a person float. This is true for all types of breast implants, regardless of size, shape, filling, or density.

They may, however, in the event of drowning, decrease the response time of rescue personnel and increase your likelihood of survival, primarily due their drawing and keeping the attention of potential rescuers. 😛

Tags: Babies | Beauty | Bikini Girls | Bikinis | Danger | Fake Tits | Humor | PSA | Swimming

This entry was posted on Thursday, August 27th, 2020 at 8:09 am and is filed under Humor, Society. You can skip to the end and leave a response. Pinging is currently not allowed.

Old school rules for maintaining a safe distance. Not only are they good for COVID-19, but these rules are also excellent for dealing with any of the #BlackLivesMatter and/or #Antifa riots.

Tags: #Antifa | #BlackLivesMatter | America | Coronavirus | COVID-19 | Humor | PSA | Society | Spears | Weaponry

This entry was posted on Wednesday, July 29th, 2020 at 6:12 am and is filed under Humor, Society. You can skip to the end and leave a response. Pinging is currently not allowed.